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    Mommy and Me: Emily in Paris Inspired Looks

    The rollercoaster of emotions the year 2020 has brought us is an understatement and a memorable one indeed. Sometimes we just want something fun, light, and a little fantasy (wink). So this show on Netflix, called Emily In Paris got me inspired to recreate some looks that are already in our closets. Since we can’t travel anywhere right now, we thought a little Parisian outfit would be cute for the day. And this is not just a photoshoot session, we actually went to the mall, Target, and Home Depot.

    It’s so funny, my daughter was like ” Mama, we got lots of compliments on our outfits! ” I think that was cute and yes, we are kind of overdressed that day. But oh well, we’ve gone through so much in 2020 that sometimes you just have to let things go and not overthink. It was a fun girls’ day out. She is so much fun to shop with now, we are like little besties.

    Have some fun and create some looks even if you don’t really go anywhere. I’ve had enough of leggings and sweatpants lol. At least, that day. If you want, you can shop for our mommy and me look down below.

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    Thank you so much for reading and have a pleasant day!

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    Mother’s Day Gift Guide

    Mothers and mothers of fur babies, it doesn’t matter. We are mothers, we nurture, love and care. And we deserve some good treats this coming Mother’s Day. I created some great gift ideas that are best sellers and have amazing reviews from Amazon and Nordstrom. I also included a few of my personal favorites.

    Let me walk you through these items and why I included them for this years Mother’s Day Gift Guide. For me around this time, it’s all about being comfy and cozy, discovering our inner Martha Stewart while looking pretty and fresh in the comforts of our home. I got you some of the best of the best!

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    1. Anthropologie trinket dish – I don’t know about you, but I love a pretty trinket dish to display fun jewelry pieces. If you are looking to spruce up your vanity or your desk, a pretty trinket dish to store and style your space is good idea. This one is top rated at Anthropologie. If you are letter I, you are one lucky girl as yours is 50% off at Nordstrom!
    2. Halluci slippers – The most wanted and top selling slippers at Amazon. It has 3,000 + reviews for a reason. I ordered this last week and it’s on it’s way.
    3. Dyson Supersonic hairdryer – The most talk about hairdryers for awhile now and selling fast in Amazon. It’s worth a bang of your buck especially if you love blow outs.
    4. Monogrammed necklace – Straight up pretty and cute. Who doesn’t love elegant and dainty jewelries?
    5. Satin pajamas – Sleep like a beauty in this soft and silky pajamas. Another best seller in Amazon. This is definitely perfect for summer.
    6. Diptyque candles – The most best selling candle in Nordstrom. It’s aroma fill up the whole house and it last long. Also an elegant room decor.
    7. Anastasia brow set – One of my personal favorites. I’ve been using it for years and the only brand i use for brows.
    8. Laura Mercier duo lip set – Another personal favorite. I love the Rose, it compliments well on me. It is also silky and smooth to put on. A must try !

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    1. Pajamas – Another Nordstrom shoppers favorite pj’s. Top seller and bloggers favorite.
    2. Magnolia Table Vol. 2 by Joanna Gaines – I need to order this recipe stat ! I’ve heard great reviews from this and I love Joanna Gaines.
    3. Skinceuticals serum – I love Skinceuticals brand, they are amazing. This one is on my wish list.
    4. Crop sweater – one of my personal favorites, super cute, comfy and goes with anything.Definitely a go to.
    5. Smeg toaster – I love love love the retro style of Smeg toaster. Definitely a stand out.
    6. Kitchenaid mixer – One of the best mixer out there. Hands down to this. I highly recommend this toaster.
    7. Spanx leggings – Awesome leggings and it’s definitely worth it. It sucks your tummy in. So much reviews in Nordstrom. Check it out !

    There you go! Enjoy shopping in the comfort of your home 🙂

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    Things I learned About Life Over The Past Decade ( 2010 – 2019 )

    2019 What a year that was ! So much had happened and full of surprises both good and bad. But a start of a whole new decade makes me think back of the whole 10 years and what I’ve been through during that period. It was also the time that I was new to motherhood and trying to figure out on how to balance marriage, parenthood and your own well being. That decade was the start of full blown adulting. Every decision I make or we make as a couple ties in to our marriage, our lifestyle and of course, our kids. It wasn’t easy. And by saying that, I have a lump in my throat. It’s not easy girl, it’s not easy. I’m sure it’s not just me who went through the hard times, we all are. It could be more or less that I’ve been through. But the endurance of pain and hardship is subjective.What matter is, we survived each passing day and we’ve come far all along.

    Here are a few things that the 2010s taught me about life……..

    Self – Care

    Identifying what self-care really is. Purely subjective, because what self-care for one, is not for the other . Also we changed. Confession here, I used to shop a lot. When the kids were little, going to the mall was an escape for me and come home with a bunch of stuffs that I don’t really need. I justified myself by saying ” I’m so tired, i deserve it. ” At that period, it gives me joy. No regrets at all. I was happy ! But, it came to a point where it doesn’t serve me anymore. Don’t get it twisted, I still shop. There is nothing really wrong with that . But I wanted something else and what was the idea of “self-care” to me, it’s not anymore. Nowadays, that my kids have grown (but still little). I want something else and yes, I’m on a mission. I’m doing a lot of soul searching and trying new things. It’s going to be a lot of trial and error but I’m hoping for the best. At this point, what does self care really means to you ?

    Establishing a habit

    This was crucial to me especially in the beginning of motherhood. It was just me and my husband. We have no outside help. When my husband goes to work even if he works at home, I’m on my my own. I feel lonely. It also comes with the territory of motherhood, we all feel lonely and isolated at some point or the other regardless if you have a husband, family or friend who helps you. It’s because you are a mom and you know you have a big responsibility to your child. It’s not just about you anymore. A lot of things to consider and a lot of sacrifices.

    So establishing a habit was hard, but i started it little by little. Little goals. I remembered when I first had a newborn, my goal was to take a shower everyday. I don’t care what time it is. My point is sticking to that habit and be committed even if the act is so little.

    Then years go by my habits changed and little goals became big goals. 2010s was a period of health and wellness became a priority and slowly adapting my diet and workout as part of my lifestyle without being so obsessed with ones appearance but with how you feel with your body. I eat and work out to make me feel good and not to gain six pack abs. What a goal right ? I don’t care what you say. Because for me if my goal is to have a six pack, it stresses me out. Even bodybuilders couldn’t maintain a six pack, some do but it’s not healthy. That’s why there is an off season and on season for a reason.

    So to continue….. When I’m stressed out, it translates to everyone in the household. It’s not pretty guys, it’s not pretty. I need to know where I’m comfortable at and my balance.

    Be optimistic and have a fighting spirit

    Sometimes you’re the one standing in your way. There are things that we’ve been meaning to do but we don’t do it because we don’t have time or whatever. Step back and figure out some changes to attain those goals.

    2010s was a decade full of self-discovery and yes, the time my blog was born. I enjoyed journaling even when i was as a child and having a blog is just natural for me. But making a blog into a business is a different story and put me into the highs and lows mentally and physically. There is a lot involved to keep it running. I wish it’s just all about taking pretty pictures and writing but it’s not. There are lot of things to figure out especially how fast digital and social media evolves. Most big blogs/vlogs are run by a team and when you have a little blog and do things like how these big blogs work. It takes a toll on you. There were times that I’m about to give up but a lot of times it makes me feel grateful and blessed.

    Through my blog I’ve been judge. I don’t really talk about these things a lot because I want to keep it positive but yes, I feel it. I don’t hear it , I don’t make noises about it . But I felt it, i feel it. That’s how being optimistic and fighting spirit comes into play. Also, you have to accept that you can’t serve everyone.

    Speak Up

    We all know that to get your point across and to get what you want, you got to speak up. As a filipino immigrant being married to an American, at some point and time getting your point across is a challenge. You have different cultures and upbringing, of course there will be clash.

    Since 2010’s was the infant stage of our marriage, it taught me to speak up at a right place and a right time on getting my point across without getting on each other’s nerves. I’m not saying I’m already an expert on this. It’s a work on progress but practicing good communication is really essential. I have no marriage tips guys. All I can say marriage is work and it’s not all fairy tales. When someone tells me their marriage is flawless and perfect, it’s a lie.

    In regards to personal . As an immigrant, communicating with Americans other than my husband and our inner circle is important to me. My blog and social media taught me a lot. Good and bad. One of the reasons why I went back to work dental assisting last 2019, was because I want to hone my communication skills, be a part of a group and learn from it. One on one interaction is obviously different from social media and the community of it.

    If you are an immigrant in the States fresh from your homeland. Venture out, engaged and learn from it. You’ll be amazed of how these people’s lives and actions speaks to you, taught you, amazes you and inspires you.

    Don’t Take Things Personally

    Well, it’s case to cases basis but most of the time they are not worth your time. So don’t take it personally and most of the time it’s not about you. It’s them, it speaks on their personality and who they truly are. And if you’ve been rejected , ignored etc. It’s not an expression of your self worth. Maybe it’s a sign that it’s not meant to be or not a match of who you are and what truly aligns with your values. It’s not a reflection of who you are.

    Definition Of Your Success

    We all have stages in life. Don’t let anyone define success for you. Define it yourself.

    Whatever stage in your life right now, keep going, keep hustling, keep fighting and if you are stay at home with little kids, embrace those moments and hug them tighter because they grow so fast like a blink of an eye. It’s okay if you read that same book 100 times. It’s okay if they still want to be tuck in bed. It’s their safe place to make one on one conversation with you.

    If you are a working mom, it’s okay if you can’t pick them up from school and sometimes they have to make their own afternoon snacks or dinner perhaps. They need to learn to be independent and to thrive on their own. Keep going and take them along with your success.

    I could have made this blog post even longer, since I have so many insights throughout the past decade. This post is even longer than I expected.

    To sum it up, it was a the most challenging, memorable and eventful decade of my life. It was a chapter of my mom’s loss, the blur life and triumphant life of marriage and motherhood, helped my family in the Philippines by giving them opportunities, an aha moment when i started my blog and monetizing from it and serving humanity as my part time job. I think i did pretty good. Hopefully by the time when I say ” I arrive” on my version of success, it is what I want to be.

    Thank you for reading and have great day….

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    Mommy and Me : Twinning Swimsuits

    I know, I know, we haven’t past Thanksgiving or Christmas yet. But if in case you are planning to go somewhere warm during or after the holidays. Probably you are also one of those lucky people where it’s nice and sunny all year round. Why not go “twinning” with your beloved minis or even the entire family. I swear it’s cute and fun !

    These swimsuits are from Yaffi Fashion. They have all kinds of matching stuffs for the whole family, from mommy and me dresses, family matching swimsuits and pajamas. Now that the holidays are coming, take a look at their family pajamas. So adorable and they have a lot of selections! Price range ? Very affordable.

    Mommy and Me Pineapple Swimsuits

    Mommy and Me Printed Leaves Swimsuits

    Thank you so much for reading!

    *Thank you Yaffi Fashion for this post.

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    Mommy and Me: Plaid for Fall

    There’s something about plaid that looks so good to wear around fall. It has that heritage classic preppy tailored look, that looks so elegantly appropriate for fall for some reason. Don’t you think ? If velvet is for winter, florals is for summer, plaid is for fall. It pretty much have it’s own season. Well, based on my own fashion vocabulary. But really, if you noticed on fashion mags and editorial spreads. It has it’s own territory.

    This mommy and me coordinating plaid outfits are my favorites right now. They’re super cute for family portraits i have to say. The styles are both classics and the colors are neutral. It will go pretty much with any occasion. I’m already thinking of holiday family gatherings for these outfits as well. They’re dressy but also comfortable to wear and to move around at social gatherings. It got me really excited when i received them on the mail.

    On me

    dress : c/o Shein , boots: Forever 21

    On my daughter

    overalls : c/o Shein , top: Target , hat: Target , shoes: Target

    Use code: 4Aprill15 for extra 15% off purchase at Shein. Now until 12/31/2019

    Thank you so much for reading and may you have a happy fall season!

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    Fall Colors

    Wow, fall is here. It’s been awhile I haven’t wrote on my blog. It has been crazy busy. But, since when was i not busy ? There is always something and the list just keeps adding up. Though there are days that I’m just trying to keep my head above water, there is so much to be grateful for. Sometimes we have to pause and appreciate the beauty around us, the life that’s been bestowed upon us and how far we’ve come.

    Fall is one of my favorite season. The crisp breeze, Pumpkin Spice latte, mums and pumpkins, a trip to the cider mill, Halloween, Thanksgiving and last but not the least, fall fashion. This is the season where you can creatively and stylishly layer up.

    Fall Color Trends

    According to Pantone , the trend forecaster of colors. Fall color trends this 2019 are all about vibrant rich hues. I think about all these fall color combinations and it makes me excited. Though sometimes, it could get overwhelming. But you know what, just have fun.

    I personally love my daughter’s faux-fur vest from Shein . The soft texture and color combinations are bright and playful , perfect for little girls and fashionable as well. I love that the mixture of colors are bold and vibrant, it has some neons on it which is on trend right now.

    I always have a soft spot for brown and mustard yellow. I have different shades of browns and yellow in my closet. The bold and warm color is not too over powering and go well with neutrals.

    coat : Topshop / sweater : Topshop / skirt : 4SI3NNA / boots : Steve Madden
    vest : c/o Shein / black dress: c/o Shein / shoes: Zara

    To be honest with you, I don’t dress up like this all the time. But once in awhile i do. It gives me joy and makes me feel good about myself. On the daily, i’m on my mommy uniform. Hustling and balancing motherhood. It’s tough sometimes. But what can you do, nobody said life is easy. So you have to do better choices and do the best you possibly can. At the same time don’t take things too seriously and allow yourself to have fun. It’s all about balance.

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    Mommy and Me Summer Outfits Round-Up

    If you’ve been following my blog, you know we do a lot of mommy and me fashion here. Just for the record , it’s not everyday we try to look like twins but once in a great while we do because it’s fun ! Especially when we have matching clothes from Shein. Olivia got the hang of it since i kind of match or color coordinate our outfits since she was still a toddler. As for now, she also think it’s cute and fun until it won’t be, who knows when. But regardless, we are just soaking up every moment . Every bonding time we have as mother and daughter. I was super close to my mom , we bond all the time. I want me and my daughter to have that kind of relationship as well.

    So today, I’m sharing a round up of our summer outfits from Shein. They have a lot of mommy and me selections ! Use my code 3Aprill15 for an extra 15% off any purchase today until 9/30/2019.

    Off the shoulder dresses Mommy and daughter

    Ruffle sleeves dresses mommy and daughter

    Classic white dresses mommy and daughter

    floral dresses mommy and daughter

    When we go out wearing our mommy and me outfits, we get compliments all the time and my daughter loves that especially now that she is a little grown and more aware of things around her. There are days she would even suggest we go twinning. It’s so cute.

    Thank you so much for reading and have a great day!

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